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In this issue, you'll find:
- Road Warrior – Staying Well with Business Travel
- Professor Destressor coaching
- Up and coming workshops
1. Road Warrior – Staying Well with Business Travel
Professional travel can be stressful and tiring. The
combination of exposure to viruses, bad food,
uncomfortable beds, disrupted sleep, and low opportunity for
exercise are all stressors that can increase your
vulnerability to illness. One of my fellow travelers to a
spring higher education conference asked how I manage to
stay well while I travel. While I am not immune to an
occasional virus, I have some practices that help me stay
healthy. I have gathered my own practices and those of
fellow road warriors to stay healthy while on the road.
Get Ready to Go
The paradox of business travel is that there are extra
tasks related to being on the road and at the same time
there are the usual tasks at home that still need to be
done. Attendance at professional conferences may seem
like a break from your campus duties but in fact life on
campus still goes on while you travel piling up grading,
emails, and committee work for your return. One way to
handle this problem is to use your time effectively
before your trip. Here are some guidelines for good time
management before you go.
- What essential tasks have to be completed before I go?
- What tasks are due just after I come back that I might
move along or complete before leaving so they are not
staring at me when I renter my environment?
- What home or personal tasks such as bill paying must
Get Ready to Be There
What has to be done so that your time away has all of
the elements of support that you need while on the road?
Now here is the secret to a peaceful exit: do these
things first before you finish up the projects listed
above. I know, it doesn’t make common sense but it
does make good travel sense. You will never get all of
those above projects done anyway but at some point you
have to get in the car to go to the airport or to drive
to the conference and you will be much more relaxed as
you exit if the items below are already completed. Once
the tasks for the road are done you can spend every
available minute working on the tasks that stay at home
so they don’t haunt you while you travel.
On the Road
- What travel documents (tickets, passports, visas, etc.)
need to be in your carry on?
- What medicines and supplements do you take? Count them
out and pack them.
- What are all of the professional materials do you need
on the road? If you are presenting or consulting, there
may be handouts, Powerpoint presentations, work sheets,
exercises for your clients/participants, pencils and
markers, laser pointers/clickers, and business cards.
If you travel frequently, have a generic check list for
these items. Run a hard copy and check off as you gather
materials. Reserve a corner of your bedroom or guestroom
to gather and check off without having to run around
frantically just before leaving.
- Make up a generic packing list on your computer with
the usual items – one list for cold weather, one for
mild and one for hot weather. Develop a formula that
works for you for the different types of conferences
you attend taking into account weather, length of time
you will be there, and the wardrobe culture of each
conference (sport coat/tie or business casual). When I
used to do weekend women’s leadership retreats around
the country, I used a formula organized around a color
combination such as red/navy or black/while: one dressy
sweater, one blazer, one pair of slacks, one skirt and
five blouses, two pairs of shoes. On the plane I wore
the slacks, sweater or blazer, blouse, and one pair of
shoes. A small suitcase held a whole wardrobe with a
couple extra blouses in case of spills.
- Run a hard copy of your packing list so you can check
things off as you gather and pack. Check local weather
forecasts for the weight of clothes needed.
Over-prepare without over-packing by having items do
double duty. One woman I traveled with brought a
lightweight raincoat in mild weather that also
doubled as her robe if she wanted to work in her room
at night. A man I interviewed used his sleepwear from
the first night (sweat pants and t-shirt) as workout
clothes for the 2nd day.
- What creature comforts do you need? Cosmetics and
medicines? Itty bitty book light for reading at night?
Cozy packable slippers? Packable exercise/work-out/swim
gear? Healthy snacks that travel well?
- If you live with other people, make it likely they
will welcome you back by making a graceful exit. Don’t
grump around the house about the difficulties of
travel. Instead, ask them for help, offering to
reciprocate in their hour of need. Make any
arrangements for your responsibilities for children
and pets early in the process. Make sure the people at
home have your itinerary and know how to reach you in
case you can’t get a cell phone signal. Brief them on
any essential household tasks that need to be done in
your absence. Promise to return the favor by taking on
extra duties when you are not traveling.
- Have a work and self-care agenda on the plane: eat,
nap, work. If you meet a fascinating seatmate who is
going to the same meeting, use some of the time to
network at bit. Then get back to your agenda. If
somebody wants to show you pictures of all their
grandchildren, politely tell them you have work to do.
Leave the beach novels for your beach vacation. You
are working on this trip. You will play some other
time. Get water before you get on a place since plane
travel requires extra hydration. Bring food from home
instead of eating airport or airplane food.
- After checking in at your hotel, unpack and put
your stuff in places that can be replicated in every
hotel room. For example, sleep on the same side of
the bed as you do at home. Put your toothbrush to the
right or left of the faucet. For a 2-day trip,
probably keep your folded items in the suitcase. For a
longer time, unpack into the dresser drawers.
- Leave the TV remote on the desk unless you need to
check weather and time. Skip late night TV. Save those
special movie rentals for your next vacation. You are
here to work and to take good care of yourself.
Decide in advance if you will be in touch with your
email or not during the conference time. Let your
students know your policy. Let your family know the
best way to reach you. The email will pile up but you
need focus for the conference. Multitasking lowers
effectiveness on both tasks.
- After you register with the conference, survey the
hotel with the conference or hotel map so you know
where you are going for meals and meetings. If you are
presenting, try to check out the meeting room so you
don’t have surprises. At one of the spring conferences
I was glad I checked the presentation venue the night
before so I wasn’t shocked to find out it was a
wedding tent outside of the hotel when it was time to
get into the room and set my equipment.
- Consider room service for meals unless you are
meeting colleagues for networking meals or attending
conference group meals. Drink extra water to combat
the forced air heat of the hotel. Avoid alcohol
especially the night before your presentation. Watch
your caffeine intake; it’s easy to drink a caffeinated
beverage on each break and then be too wired to fall
asleep when you are ready for bed. When possible, eat
small, lighter meals especially before you present.
Don’t worry about the large portions served and world
hunger. You don’t have to make up for the starving
people of (fill in with favorite 3rd world country).
Pass up the gooey desserts.
- Get to bed early to make up for sleep disruption
related to strange noises and surroundings. Turn the
heat down, get extra blankets ready. Read only light,
boring reading materials before falling asleep. No
murder mysteries. Set two alarms if you need to be
somewhere early, the one from home that you are used
to setting on the road and either another one from
home or the room alarm. Test out the room alarm to
make sure it works the way you want with buzzing or
music. I don’t like to wake up to a strange man
yelling at me about his political views unless my
husband is traveling with me.
- Some people use extra rituals for good health such
as sniffing and gargling saline solutions to wash out
the travel germs. The jury is out whether it helps or
irritates your mucus membranes. Some people take extra
Vitamin C or Echinacea to boost immune systems. One
thing everyone agrees on: frequent, thorough hand
washing will help keep down the transmission of germs.
- If you do get sick, stay in your room and manage
your symptoms by yourself. The rest of the conference
attendees don’t want your germs. If you are presenting,
use your judgment which is worse, canceling or not
being at your best as you present.
- If you are new to the conference circuit, a couple
- Attend only workshops that relate to things you are
working on. You do not need to fill each “class period”
with a class. Take time to process the information
overload and refresh yourself with a walk, swim or nap.
- Approach networking events with an agenda. Whom do you
want to meet? What information do you want to exchange,
learn, or teach? What career opportunities do you want
out of this conference? For example, having tea with
potential collaborators might be of higher value to you
than attending the ice cream social of the alums from
your undergraduate institution.
- On the last day, get up ½ hour early to repack and
do the hotel check out procedure even if you are not
leaving until later in the day. You will feel less
- Be sure to check your ground transportation with
local travel conditions and the average security
clearance times. You don’t want to get to the airport 2
hours early in Savannah but you will need every minute
of that time in Chicago, Atlanta, or Dallas.
- On the way home review your notes and pick out
three key “keepers,” things that you learned that you
want to implement. In spite of big dreams to do
everything, make three small changes in your teaching
or scholarly work that will make your attendance
worthwhile. Less is more.
- Be sure about ground transportation for your
return. If your spouse or friend is picking you up,
be clear about how you will communicate about your a
rrival and where you want to be met (baggage, curb,
etc.). Once you connect with your driver, be open to
listening as well as talking. Yes, you are the Big
Cheese because you have done important things on the
road, but the people at home may have had important
life events as well.
- Plan to be tired even if you got adequate rest on
site. Human cells were not meant to hurtle through
space at 600 mph or even 60mph. Travel takes a lot
out of you.
- Drink extra water. Prevent dehydration by going
lightly the caffeine and alcohol. Eat lightly on the
trip back and on your return.
- Get to bed at your usual time adjusted for time
zones. Don’t be tempted to clean everything you
didn’t clean before you left or answer all of those
- Allow a ½ day for re-entry if at all possible.
Unpack, check mail, pay essential bills, do some
highly urgent work tasks. Start a database of people
you want to contact from the conference and file
your conference notes now. Begin to clear out email,
most essential (according to your values and
priorities) first. Then get on to one of those
higher level tasks such as class preparation or
Business travel can be a great time to teach,
learn, and meet great people if you have a system
to do so with professional focus and good
2. Professor Destressor Workshops and Coaching
About the publisher: Susan Robison, Ph.D. is a
psychologist and an independent educator. She is
professor of psychology at the College of Notre Dame of
Maryland and offers services as a professional coach,
speaker, author and seminar leader. She loves to coach
professionals who want improvement in:
If you are feeling stuck on the way to your ideal life,
give Susan a call for a complementary half-hour coaching
- work-life balance,
- strategic career management,
- time management,
- increasing productivity.
Susan provides keynotes and seminars to colleges,
universities and professional organizations on the
She offers her audiences a follow-up coaching session
because she knows that workshops don’t work… unless the
participants apply their learnings.
- work-life balance and stress management,
- faculty development,
- time management,
- leadership strategies for academics,
- relationships skills at home and at work,
- change strategies.
Contact Susan for your coaching, speaking, or seminar
needs at Susan@ProfessorDestressor.com or at 410-465-5892.
3. Up and coming workshops
Title: “Peak Performance Practices of Highly Effective
and Happy Faculty” and “Strategic Career Design and work-Life Balance for
Women in Higher Education”
Date: July 13-14, 2010
Place: St. Thomas University, St. Paul, MN
Title: “Your Best Year Ever: Managing Your Mission,
Yourself, and Your Time”
Date: October 15, 2010
Place: Johns Hopkins School of Medicine
Leadership Program for Women Faculty, Baltimore, MD
I am accepting speaking invitations for faculty
work/life balance and leadership workshops for winter and spring
of 2011. Contact me if your college or
university needs a presenter on any of the topics
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